The difference between Spanish and Dutch etiquette is the ‘former never
asking his guest a single question beyond the strictest rules of politeness,
whilst the honest Dutchman demands where he has been, where he is going,
what is his business, and even how many brothers, sisters, or children he
may happen to have.’

Charles Darwin, The Voyage of the Beagle

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